When does a Number stop being A Matter?

GREAT THOUGHT
When does a Number stop being A Matter?



A matter N ones relatIonship, when age becomes an infraction, while life makes you a memory.
When maturity has masked the face of reality, turning civil conversations into rhythmic harmonies.
having Ones Words reconstruct its self into a melody.....instilling passion into a soul, that speaks to ones heart w/o even Singing.

Emptiness

Exposed and bare within
shoving life being not content, showing of a lost land to be discovered, interupting a destiny,neverthe less showing a new color, so stay bare before the storm and expose the flesh of induring, for the fasting of more is to be announced.

LOVE YOURSELF 1ST AND LAVISH YOURSELF WITH EVERYTHING

GREAT THOUGHT:


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman to realize when to love herself.

My picks for Fall Winter 10/11

This is mostly about my Wish list.... Hopefully my husband can get the hint. these are the items that i need in my life. My winter wardrobe will consist of sweaters of course,booties & boots, cloves, hats, dresses, and coat jackets. I'm really into jackets or vest for that matter. every man needs a blazer like every women needs a freakum dress!

This is one my clients winter wardrobe i did. Shes small and petite so i made her outfits that will elongate her make her seem much more taller

Curves and Men who Love Them!

We hear all the time that we need to “Embrace your curves, Love every part of your body and just love yourself”, which is true! You should always love yourself first, because if you don’t how do you expect any man too. This is not that kind of article. This article is dedicated to the men who love curvy, shapely, women with meat on their bones and The curves they love.
My Grandmother was from the South. Arkansas to be exact. She always to told me “I love your big pretty legs”. Now I wasn’t the chunky one in the family then. I just had nice thick legs. One day I asked my Grandmother “Why do you like my legs they are too thick?” She said “Dogs don’t want anything, but a bone” and she did everything in power not to make me “skin and bones” she accomplished because I love chicken. It was so funny. She was beautiful and slim, but she grew up in an era where men look for Georgia peaches.
(I’ve read an interesting article that made my grandmothers era still in existence today.) The article says “It is already known that curvaceous women live longer and that men find them more attractive but the new research suggests that they are also cleverer.”(sic)And “that men who admire women with hourglass figures do so because they are more intelligent and therefore produce more intelligent children”. So I guess there is some sanity to my Grandmother’s madness!
The article also says “that a woman's hips and thighs contained omega-3 fatty acids, which help nurture both mother and baby's brains during pregnancy” and “"Shapely hips and thighs hold essential nutrients that nurse brains and could produce smart kids, too," said one researcher, Steven Gaulin, of the University of California at Santa Barbara.

(Quotes from random men)

Anonymous Man:
“What it boils down to ladies is that no matter what men like or say we absolutely adore plus size women and everything about you. Until you believe for yourself that you are beautiful on the inside first, then no matter what size you are you will not like what you see in the mirror. Men although we are visual creatures and like a woman with more meat on her bones be sure that you get past the outer surface to get to know the woman within so she does not feel that her size is the only reason you are interested.”


Mike:
Curviness defines a female body. But having said that, I would like to make one thing clear; men lust for hourglass figure in women. Remember, I used the word lust and not love. Lust because men associate curviness with sex. When it comes to true love, things are very different.
Mr. Right:
“I can’t stand skinny women. Give me a gal with some meat on her bones any ol' day!”
John:
“Women with curves make my junk bark. There is something so shockingly vulnerable, feminine, and grounded about a woman with back, hips, a lil’ paunch.”
Mason:
“It’s nothing like trying to tame an Beautiful over confident Voluptuous women in the bedroom”
The Dude:
“There's this girl in town who seriously could pass for Nicole Richie's twin, and most of my friends think she's hot and i'm just like WTF!? Curves are wayyyyyyyy better and their better for lovin' too if you know what I mean.”
David R.
“It’s something about putting my hands around a women’s waist and how her curves just fit in my arms.”

Foundation is everything Part 2 The Right Way!

The last blog you seen was some Wrong Wrong ways of wearing your clothes. Even if it didn't look that bad there can be better ways of wearing your clothes.
Undergarments are your foundation. Spanx, Stocking,or just Body Shapers is what gives you that smooth look! Don't think the models look smooth because they look nice.. They have on a Body Shaper!

Layering up for Fall/Winter

I'm have always been into Fall/Winter Clothing. It's time to put some clothes on, layer up on shirts or sweaters and just the season to get Cozy with someone. I like Fall because for 1. It's not HOT!, Kids are in school parents get some alone time, and can i say Sweater, Jackets, Vest, and Booties!

Foundation is Everything! Part 1- Just say NO!

You know how they say you have to have a stable foundation for a structure or it all starts tumbling down? my Mother would say" You can't build a house on Quick sand" but lately I've been seeing people do just that! How your clothes is warn is just as the same as a structure. Foundation is everthing. Your under clothing is more important than your clothes that's on top.

I should not see this, but its everywhere!

Ladies with fairer skin should not do white on white because it shows as well black shows also so try a nude color under garment and for that dress style obvious no boyshorts either!


My plus size ladies Spagetti straps is a NO no. It makes your arms look even bigger and that means you need a Great strapless bra. in Pic she was wrong when your breast look sad like a sad face they are when there in a good bra it should like a smile. Please stay with shirts that stay below the hips.(That fits your size)

Here more Tacky Tacky JUst Hell nO! People Just say NO!

Accesories...Yes!

I have been on this Purse crave for about some time now and I'm more interested in large Clutch purses. I decided to look up some Clutches that are just gorgeous! I feel that every Closet needs a clutch, Think of it as broch or a accent piece.

I thought i would never see this
Men Clutches!
Balenciaga Covered Giant Envelope Clutch


Gucci Fall Winter 2009




Large Clutches


Rebecca Minkoff Easy Rider Clutch ($375)


Katherine Kwei Donna Clutch ($700)


Be&D Garbo Satchel ($1,090)


More and More Beautiful Purses




Valentino Alice Glam Bag $4,990


Valentino Laceland leather tote in grey $3,495


Valentino white medium leather bag $1,695

EARRINGS that are OUT of this WORLD yet creatiVE

We are all fascinated by Accessories, but this is where Fashion meets Technology. Both men and women have to stay up to date on our technology. Don't be in denial, If you pre-order the IPAD and the new sprint Evo then your a Technology Freak. Like me! You have to check out these Fashionable Gadgets

ORB Bluetooth Headset- its a ring or Ear-ring
The O.R.B (Orbital Ring Bluetooth) from Hybra Advance Technologies has revolutionize the Bluetooth headset that transforms into a ring with a simple twist. A scrolling display on the outside surface of the ring displays caller ID information as well as voice-to-text so you don’t even have to take it off of your finger to stay in touch. When you receive a call or set an alarm for a scheduled meeting, the ring vibrates on your finger to alert you. NXT technology has been utilized for bone conduction so you don’t have to stuff anything into your ear canals.




It is affordable, the bluetooth is $129.00 and it has been available since January 2010

If your a person who loses their USB, then you might want to Invest in Apples IRing


Price not stated

Now this Earring is so beautiful. Yes, they might remind you of being an elf but what can i say, i stay into interesting things...
These Overall Design Award for the Bridal Wear Category at 9th Indian Jewellery Design Competition.


I am so Fascinated by rihanna Earring necklace. i need those earrings in my life...!
bizarre earring-necklace hybrid.

Heels or No heels

The shoes these days are getting more and more out of hand and I LOVE IT! Runways stay on fire with these heeless shoes. Although these beautiful and unique shoes are taking interest their only in the Introduction stage of the fashion cycle meaning untill they find a way to make these unique shoes for Mass Market under $200.00 we wont be wearing them to soon.
Enjoy seeing them on celebs and on the runway because unless you trying to spend 3,500.00 on some heeless shoes we will be waiting for the Mass Market version!