Friday, September 17, 2010

When does a Number stop being A Matter?

GREAT THOUGHT
When does a Number stop being A Matter?



A matter N ones relatIonship, when age becomes an infraction, while life makes you a memory.
When maturity has masked the face of reality, turning civil conversations into rhythmic harmonies.
having Ones Words reconstruct its self into a melody.....instilling passion into a soul, that speaks to ones heart w/o even Singing.

Emptiness

Exposed and bare within
shoving life being not content, showing of a lost land to be discovered, interupting a destiny,neverthe less showing a new color, so stay bare before the storm and expose the flesh of induring, for the fasting of more is to be announced.

LOVE YOURSELF 1ST AND LAVISH YOURSELF WITH EVERYTHING


GREAT THOUGHT:


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman to realize when to love herself.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

My picks for Fall Winter 10/11




This is mostly about my Wish list.... Hopefully my husband can get the hint. these are the items that i need in my life. My winter wardrobe will consist of sweaters of course,booties & boots, cloves, hats, dresses, and coat jackets. I'm really into jackets or vest for that matter. every man needs a blazer like every women needs a freakum dress!

This is one my clients winter wardrobe i did. Shes small and petite so i made her outfits that will elongate her make her seem much more taller

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Curves and Men who Love Them!




We hear all the time that we need to “Embrace your curves, Love every part of your body and just love yourself”, which is true! You should always love yourself first, because if you don’t how do you expect any man too. This is not that kind of article. This article is dedicated to the men who love curvy, shapely, women with meat on their bones and The curves they love.
My Grandmother was from the South. Arkansas to be exact. She always to told me “I love your big pretty legs”. Now I wasn’t the chunky one in the family then. I just had nice thick legs. One day I asked my Grandmother “Why do you like my legs they are too thick?” She said “Dogs don’t want anything, but a bone” and she did everything in power not to make me “skin and bones” she accomplished because I love chicken. It was so funny. She was beautiful and slim, but she grew up in an era where men look for Georgia peaches.
(I’ve read an interesting article that made my grandmothers era still in existence today.) The article says “It is already known that curvaceous women live longer and that men find them more attractive but the new research suggests that they are also cleverer.”(sic)And “that men who admire women with hourglass figures do so because they are more intelligent and therefore produce more intelligent children”. So I guess there is some sanity to my Grandmother’s madness!
The article also says “that a woman's hips and thighs contained omega-3 fatty acids, which help nurture both mother and baby's brains during pregnancy” and “"Shapely hips and thighs hold essential nutrients that nurse brains and could produce smart kids, too," said one researcher, Steven Gaulin, of the University of California at Santa Barbara.

(Quotes from random men)

Anonymous Man:
“What it boils down to ladies is that no matter what men like or say we absolutely adore plus size women and everything about you. Until you believe for yourself that you are beautiful on the inside first, then no matter what size you are you will not like what you see in the mirror. Men although we are visual creatures and like a woman with more meat on her bones be sure that you get past the outer surface to get to know the woman within so she does not feel that her size is the only reason you are interested.”


Mike:
Curviness defines a female body. But having said that, I would like to make one thing clear; men lust for hourglass figure in women. Remember, I used the word lust and not love. Lust because men associate curviness with sex. When it comes to true love, things are very different.
Mr. Right:
“I can’t stand skinny women. Give me a gal with some meat on her bones any ol' day!”
John:
“Women with curves make my junk bark. There is something so shockingly vulnerable, feminine, and grounded about a woman with back, hips, a lil’ paunch.”
Mason:
“It’s nothing like trying to tame an Beautiful over confident Voluptuous women in the bedroom”
The Dude:
“There's this girl in town who seriously could pass for Nicole Richie's twin, and most of my friends think she's hot and i'm just like WTF!? Curves are wayyyyyyyy better and their better for lovin' too if you know what I mean.”
David R.
“It’s something about putting my hands around a women’s waist and how her curves just fit in my arms.”